“When an individual dies on account of being stabbed, it’s customary that it rains, rain that could be a image of washing away the blood that was shed,” stated my mom earlier than I left to bid farewell to 1 younger man who was allegedly stabbed to dying.
One thing so peculiar occurred on the cemetery that was testomony to the phrases of my mom. As they lowered the coffin, it began to drizzle. I instantly remembered my mom’s phrases.
The peculiarity of this incidence was much more astonishing due to the timing of the rain. It began instantly once they lowered the coffin, and it stopped the moment they completed.
The skies have been clear, then there was a fast formation of clouds that resulted in that drizzle after which issues went again to regular. Certainly that can not be a coincidental rainfall?
So typically, the elders speak to us in regards to the interconnectedness of nature, i.e. climate, dying and start, but we dispute many of the issues they are saying to us.
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This expertise jogged my memory a lot about how we stay as much as our names, particularly if the names carry destructive connotations. For instance, when a Dikeledi (tears) all the time finds herself crying, because of the ache and heartbreak that all the time follows her life. The same destiny will probably be suffered by somebody named Sello (a cry) – all the time crying about varied heartaches.
It’s a easy case of dwelling as much as your title. I categorically point out that I’ve seen individuals with horrible names stay as much as their names . Nonetheless, the alternative hardly occurs. An individual named Mofenyi (a victor) will lose many of the battles in his or her life.
All these items used to sound mysterious to me till I witnessed them. For a very long time, I used to assume elders loved narrating tales that needed to do with numerous superstitions. I assume I used to be the proverbial “doubting Thomas” from the bible. I merely wanted proof in order that I might imagine the issues they have been saying to me.
With maturation and progress, I’m studying that we do stay in a world of the pure and supernatural.
To at the present time, the thriller of rain has all the time been part of my life. There’s a household with the surname Tsheola, and some individuals named Tsheola in my village. Tsheola is a Setswana title for the rain that falls after crop plantation. All my life, if anybody with the title or surname Tsheola handed on, whether or not it was within the wet season or not, even when there was no rain predicted in our space, it will rain on the day of their burial.
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So, when my mom spoke with certainty that there can be rain that washes away the blood, and it did, I realised that we stay in a world of supernatural powers. On this house and time of uncertainties we stay in, we actually want supernatural interventions.

Kabelo Chabalala.
Kabelo Chabalala is the founder and chairperson of the Younger Males Motion (YMM), an organisation that focuses on the reconstruction of the socialisation of boys to create a brand new cohort of males.
Electronic mail: kabelo03chabalala@gmail.com
Twitter: @KabeloJay
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